.Can it be that he is not puting it in correctly?

In no way am i Miss Sandra D. i dont have very often but the last time i did it hurt from the start. the guy said i am tight which i figured that but still it hurt. it felt like he was not putting it in correctly and was just jamming it in. i dont know though. is that possible or is it that i havent had in a while. we had a month before and it still hurt. it was tolerable but i dont think it should hurt that much. So i ask did he not put it in correctly or was it me?